Born on a farm in southern Denmark, I spent most of my childhood outdoors, innocently connected to nature. But even with this wonderful connection, something was missing: I did not feel safe and seen by my family! I recognized the pain of not being seen and the feeling of being neglected.

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Therefore in my life, it became important for me to see people. This meant that I spent most of my working life supporting people to get a better life and gradually believing that it’s possible for them to live their dreams.

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The first time I experienced eye gazing, I was 14 years old. I drove with a tractor on my father’s land and a girl from my class drove past on her bike. We had instant eye contact. This eye contact was so profound that it left a deep impression in me, even when it only lasted 10 seconds. It was a moment I never forgot.

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5 years ago, I met a teacher who reintroduced me to eye gazing, and I immediately knew that’s what I’m gonna do. Since then I have been eye gazing almost every day with great benefit to myself and others. Seeing people is simple.